Spoiled step daughter driving me crazy

[single stressed mom]

I am a mother of 3. I love children. That being said, my new step duaghter is soooo spoiled I don't know what to do with her. She is completely ungreatful and her father treats her like she is an angel. He treats my children differently than he treats her. I don't know how to handle this situation. When I spaek to him about my feelings he takes no responsiblity. I think he feels badly about his divorce from her mother and is making up for it with material things. When he has family functions, my children are not invited. Should this bother me? Cause I'm taking it very personal.

[#1fan]

I may bee a tennager, but I think I could help, I have been in the same thing as well with my step father, he treated my sister and I different than his two children. I would say try to spend time with her, if that doesn't work, try talking to your husband about how he treats your children. Are they feeling left out from their step father? If yes, have your children tell him that they also want to spen time with him. It worked for my sister and I when we felt left out, we talked to our step father, telling how we felt and wanted time with him as well. If that doesn't help, well, I don't know what to say, again, I am onlt a teen, but helping people is my passion! That's why I LOVE Jo Frost!